In Jenny Han’s “The Summer I Turned Pretty,” Jeremiah Fisher is the superior guy for Belly over his brother Conrad Fisher. Jeremiah’s emotional understanding, his support of Belly’s journey, and his ability to put her needs first to make him a better fit. In the show, Conrad always keeps to himself and is more distant. He focuses more on his mental health and future career instead of having time for Belly. Jeremiah offers Belly the kind of relationship that will help her grow and be happy in the future.
Jeremiah’s consistent emotional support is a key role that makes him the better pick. Throughout the series, he demonstrates a willingness to be open and vulnerable with her, sharing his feelings and providing a safe space for her to express her own. Ava Plunkett, (9) states that “Jeremiah has always been there for Belly when Conrad left after a 6-month draining relationship.” Whether it is offering a listening ear during stressful times or celebrating her best accomplishments with genuine enthusiasm, Jeremiah being emotionally available for her creates a good sense of security and trust that is vital for a stable relationship.
However, Conrad’s character is always emotionally unavailable, and he has a tendency toward self-absorption, creating a less stable relationship for Belly. For example, during the debutante ball, his distracted and distant behavior leaves Belly feeling unimportant and confused, while Jeremiah steps in and finishes the dance with her. His frequent moodiness and withdrawals always leave Belly guessing about her feelings. Lara Elsayed (10), states that “Though Conrad was grieving I do believe he could’ve been more emotionally present for Belly.” Instead of offering reassurance or communication during their relationship, Conrad instead blamed it all on his mother’s illness, showing that he was just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, especially with his brother’s girlfriend.
In conclusion, when considering the romantic paths available to Belly Conklin in “The Summer I Turned Pretty,” Jeremiah Fisher is clearly the more promising and compatible partner over his detached and self-centered brother Conrad. His unconditional emotional support, deep appreciation for Belly, and dedication to her shows clearly who is the better fit.
